雷泽归妹Guī Mèi · Marrying Maiden
震上 · 兑下Thunder over Lake
卦辞The Judgement
归妹:征凶,无攸利。Guī Mèi. Going forward: misfortune. Nothing is favorable.
处于不得已、委屈求全的状态。震雷在上属木居东方——泽上有雷,雷在泽水上空打响。金克木,泽(金)压着雷(木)的根——这是女主动追随男,位置不正,前进有凶。前进有凶——但有些事不得不为。这种“明知不利而前往”是悲壮的——需要谨慎、需要智慧、需要懂得自处。
A state of having to make do, of swallowing one's discomfort. the upper trigram Zhèn is Thunder, element Wood, in the east — thunder above the lake, sounding over the water. Metal checks Wood, the lake (Metal) pressing on the root of the thunder (Wood) — the woman actively following the man, the position not upright, and to advance brings misfortune. To advance brings misfortune — yet some things must still be done. "Knowing it cannot go well and going anyway" is tragic; it demands caution, wisdom, and the ability to bear up.
大象The Image
《象》曰:泽上有雷,归妹;君子以永终知敝。Thunder over the lake: the image of the Marrying Maiden. The noble one, accordingly, keeps the end in view and understands what can decay.
六爻The Six Lines
初九,归妹以娣,跛能履,征吉。The maiden is married off as a junior wife. A lame leg can still walk. Going forward: good fortune.
以陪嫁的身份(次要位置)——,虽然瘸着腿也能走路。即使位置不理想,也能发挥价值——吉。
Coming in as a secondary partner (the chaperoning sister) — though lame, one can still walk. Even from a non-ideal position, one can still contribute — good fortune.
九二,眇能视,利幽人之贞。Half-blind, yet still able to see. Favorable for the recluse to hold steadfast and upright.
看东西不太清楚(一只眼)——,做幽居之人的事。受限的处境下,守住自己的小天地,没问题。
Half-blind (vision impaired) but still seeing — the role of the hidden one. Holding the right path in a limited situation works fine.
六三,归妹以须,反归以娣。The maiden waits. Returns to be married as a junior wife.
想做正室却只能做次的——,只好回去做陪嫁。被现实修正预期——是必经的成熟。
Hoping to be the main wife and finding one can only be the secondary — the expectation must be revised. Adjusting one's hopes to reality is a necessary maturity.
九四,归妹愆期,迟归有时。The maiden delays the marriage. Marrying late, but in due time.
迟迟不嫁——震雷初爻,雷还没响——耐心等真正合适的时机,不强求,耐心等真正合适的时机。不强求,等就是了。
Delaying the marriage — Zhèn's Thunder, first line, the thunder not yet sounded — waiting patiently for the right time, not forcing it — waiting patiently for the truly suitable time and partner. Do not push; simply wait.
六五,帝乙归妹,其君之袂,不如其娣之袂良;月几望,吉。King Yi marries off his sister. Her sleeves are not as fine as the junior wife's. The moon is nearly full. Good fortune.
尊贵的人嫁给次要位置——震雷居中,雷声正大——反而比贵族出嫁的妹妹活得自在,位置不显赫反而吉,反而比贵族出嫁的妹妹活得自在。位置不显赫,反而吉。
A noble married into a lesser place — Zhèn's Thunder centered, the thunder upright and full — living more at ease than the lavishly dressed sister, the position unflashy but the way of life good — and she lives more at ease than the more lavishly dressed. The position is not flashy, but the way of life is good fortune.
上六,女承筐,无实;士刲羊,无血。无攸利。The woman holds a basket — no fruit in it. The man slaughters a sheep — no blood. Nothing is favorable.
女子捧着空筐,男子杀羊却不见血——震雷到极处,雷声空了——形式都做了但都是空的,形式都做了但都是空的。这种空洞的关系或合作,没什么用。
The woman holds an empty basket and the man cuts the sheep with no blood — Zhèn's Thunder at its extreme, the thunder hollow — the forms gone through but all of it empty — the forms are kept but the content is gone. A hollow relationship or partnership benefits no one.