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第五十四卦 · 54Hexagram 54归妹 · GUĪ MÈIGUĪ MÈI

雷泽归妹Guī Mèi · Marrying Maiden

震上 · 兑下Thunder over Lake

五行:金、木、水、火、土——中国传统用来描述事物相生相克的五种基本力量。开启后,解读会附上卦象对应的五行点睛。The Five Phases — Metal, Wood, Water, Fire, Earth — the traditional Chinese model of how things generate and check one another. When on, each reading adds notes on the hexagram's elemental dynamics.

卦辞The Judgement

归妹:征凶,无攸利。Guī Mèi. Going forward: misfortune. Nothing is favorable.

处于不得已、委屈求全的状态。兑泽在下属金居西方,震雷在上属木居东方——泽上有雷,雷在泽水上空打响。金克木,泽(金)压着雷(木)的根——这是女主动追随男,位置不正,前进有凶。前进有凶——但有些事不得不为。这种“明知不利而前往”是悲壮的——需要谨慎、需要智慧、需要懂得自处。

A state of having to make do, of swallowing one's discomfort. The lower trigram Duì is Lake, element Metal, in the west; the upper trigram Zhèn is Thunder, element Wood, in the east — thunder above the lake, sounding over the water. Metal checks Wood, the lake (Metal) pressing on the root of the thunder (Wood) — the woman actively following the man, the position not upright, and to advance brings misfortune. To advance brings misfortune — yet some things must still be done. "Knowing it cannot go well and going anyway" is tragic; it demands caution, wisdom, and the ability to bear up.

大象The Image

《象》曰:泽上有雷,归妹;君子以永终知敝。Thunder over the lake: the image of the Marrying Maiden. The noble one, accordingly, keeps the end in view and understands what can decay.

六爻The Six Lines

01
初九Initial Nine

初九,归妹以娣,跛能履,征吉。The maiden is married off as a junior wife. A lame leg can still walk. Going forward: good fortune.

以陪嫁的身份(次要位置)——兑泽初爻,水刚汇——虽然瘸着腿也能走路,即使位置不理想也能发挥价值,虽然瘸着腿也能走路。即使位置不理想,也能发挥价值——吉。

Coming in as a secondary partner (the chaperoning sister)Duì's Lake, first line, the water just gathered — though lame one can still walk, contributing even from a poor position — though lame, one can still walk. Even from a non-ideal position, one can still contribute — good fortune.

02
九二Second Nine

九二,眇能视,利幽人之贞。Half-blind, yet still able to see. Favorable for the recluse to hold steadfast and upright.

看东西不太清楚(一只眼)——兑泽居中,水面反光——做幽居之人的事,受限的处境下守住自己的小天地,做幽居之人的事。受限的处境下,守住自己的小天地,没问题。

Half-blind (vision impaired) but still seeingDuì's Lake centered, light glancing off the water — the work of one who lives retired, holding one's small world in a confined place — the role of the hidden one. Holding the right path in a limited situation works fine.

03
六三Third Six

六三,归妹以须,反归以娣。The maiden waits. Returns to be married as a junior wife.

想做正室却只能做次的——兑泽到三爻,水混了——只好回去做陪嫁,被现实修正预期,只好回去做陪嫁。被现实修正预期——是必经的成熟。

Hoping to be the main wife and finding one can only be the secondaryDuì's Lake at the third line, the water muddied — forced back into the secondary role, expectations corrected by reality — the expectation must be revised. Adjusting one's hopes to reality is a necessary maturity.

04
九四Fourth Nine

九四,归妹愆期,迟归有时。The maiden delays the marriage. Marrying late, but in due time.

迟迟不嫁——震雷初爻,雷还没响——耐心等真正合适的时机,不强求,耐心等真正合适的时机。不强求,等就是了。

Delaying the marriageZhèn's Thunder, first line, the thunder not yet sounded — waiting patiently for the right time, not forcing it — waiting patiently for the truly suitable time and partner. Do not push; simply wait.

05
六五Fifth Six

六五,帝乙归妹,其君之袂,不如其娣之袂良;月几望,吉。King Yi marries off his sister. Her sleeves are not as fine as the junior wife's. The moon is nearly full. Good fortune.

尊贵的人嫁给次要位置——震雷居中,雷声正大——反而比贵族出嫁的妹妹活得自在,位置不显赫反而吉,反而比贵族出嫁的妹妹活得自在。位置不显赫,反而吉。

A noble married into a lesser placeZhèn's Thunder centered, the thunder upright and full — living more at ease than the lavishly dressed sister, the position unflashy but the way of life good — and she lives more at ease than the more lavishly dressed. The position is not flashy, but the way of life is good fortune.

06
上六Top Six

上六,女承筐,无实;士刲羊,无血。无攸利。The woman holds a basket — no fruit in it. The man slaughters a sheep — no blood. Nothing is favorable.

女子捧着空筐,男子杀羊却不见血——震雷到极处,雷声空了——形式都做了但都是空的,形式都做了但都是空的。这种空洞的关系或合作,没什么用。

The woman holds an empty basket and the man cuts the sheep with no bloodZhèn's Thunder at its extreme, the thunder hollow — the forms gone through but all of it empty — the forms are kept but the content is gone. A hollow relationship or partnership benefits no one.